{"id":3292,"date":"2017-09-21T15:24:35","date_gmt":"2017-09-21T12:24:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lila-spirit.ro\/wp\/?page_id=3292"},"modified":"2017-09-21T15:24:35","modified_gmt":"2017-09-21T12:24:35","slug":"este-mereu-vorba-despre-tine","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/lila-spirit.ro\/wp\/?page_id=3292","title":{"rendered":"\u201dESTE MEREU VORBA DESPRE TINE\u201d\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 ESTE MEREU VORBA DESPRE TINE\u2026\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Iat\u0103 un nou algoritm, adresat practican\u021bilor \u0218colii, dar \u0219i celor care cocheteaz\u0103 de la distan\u021b\u0103 (adic\u0103 citesc, se mai preocup\u0103, cocheteaz\u0103 cu, etc.)<\/p>\n<p>De fapt nu este chiar at\u00e2t de nou, asta repet\u0103m noi mereu la sal\u0103, \u00eentr-o semi-glum\u0103, la exerci\u021biile de cur\u0103\u021bare sau la precizarea vreunui concept sau a vreunei capcane\u2026<\/p>\n<p>De ce? Deoarece din experien\u021ba de zi cu zi ne-am prins c\u0103 oamenii exact asta fac: <em>se ascund dup\u0103 paravanul \u201cde fapt nu e vorba despre mine\u201d, afirmat cu t<\/em><em>\u0103rie, chiar cu vehemen\u021b\u0103 uneori (ne ap\u0103r\u0103m imaginea de sine cu orice pre\u021b!), sau pe t\u0103cutelea, sau doar subcon\u0219tient\u2026 <\/em><\/p>\n<p>Paravan care blocheaz\u0103, \u00een mod convenabil, aluzia respectiv\u0103, sau comentariul, sau sugestia concret\u0103 de a cur\u0103\u021ba \u0219i tu (violen\u021ba, rigiditatea, b\u0103d\u0103r\u0103nia, non-empatia, zg\u00e2rcenia, ego-ul spiritual, starea de victim\u0103, etc etc etc, zeci de astfel de lucruri nu tocmai pl\u0103cute imaginii de sine). Mecanism de ap\u0103rare foarte eficient: \u201cnu este vorba despre mine!, vorbim doar despre al\u021bii, eu particip de pe margine la aceast\u0103 discu\u021bie. Eu nu sunt a\u0219a. Eu nu. Eu \u0219tiu, eu m\u0103 descurc, eu m\u0103 prind de capcane, eu \u00een\u021beleg tot, eu nu am nici o problem\u0103 cu\u2026\u201d, zice ego-ul, din p\u0103cate chiar auto-conving\u00e2ndu-se de asta.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u0218i asta devine una dintre explica\u021biile majore ale ne-avans\u0103rii \u00een practic\u0103. Faptul c\u0103 refuzi (con\u0219tient sau subcon\u0219tient) s\u0103 te vezi.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Ba da, este vorba despre tine. Mereu. Chiar dac\u0103 nu vezi, nu \u0219tii \u0219i nu recuno\u0219ti asta!<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Haide s\u0103-\u021bi fie clar, le ai pe toate, \u00een grade (procente) diferite \u0219i \u00een combina\u021bii diferite, uneori foarte creative; dar toate sunt acolo, \u00een acele straturi-stive ale ego-ului. Nev\u0103zute, ne\u0219tiute \u2013 uneori nici de c\u0103tre tine: pentru c\u0103 asta este real, faptul c\u0103 nu te vezi. Tocmai de aceea ai nevoie de o oglind\u0103: cei din jur, sau un maestru, sau Universul care te oglinde\u0219te perfect \u0219i \u00ee\u021bi d\u0103 replica exact\u0103 \u2013 \u00een via\u021ba ta (doar c\u0103 nici pe asta nu o vezi). Tocmai de aceea, ia acest algoritm ca pe o axiom\u0103: am acolo de toate, la desag\u0103\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u0218i mai bine s\u0103 cur\u0103\u021b eu \u00een plus \u2013 dec\u00e2t \u00een minus!\u201d s-a comentat odat\u0103 la sal\u0103 &#8211; negustore\u0219te.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u00a0Glum\u0103 trist\u0103: pentru c\u0103 o cur\u0103\u021bare-eliberare eficient\u0103 se va face tocmai atunci c\u00e2nd le recuno\u0219ti, le vezi, \u0219i le eliberezi sau le cure\u021bi, \u2013 responsabil, cu curaj \u0219i cu dorin\u021ba de a merge mai departe.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Asta este valabil \u0219i referitor la comentariile din texte, c\u0103r\u021bi, \u00eenregistr\u0103ri, etc<strong>. Da, E\u0218TI \u0218I TU ACOLO, DA, ESTE VORBA \u0218I DESPRE TINE! MEREU! Nu te mai ascunde dup\u0103 deget\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Indra<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 ESTE MEREU VORBA DESPRE TINE\u2026\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 &nbsp; Iat\u0103 un nou algoritm, adresat practican\u021bilor \u0218colii, dar \u0219i celor care cocheteaz\u0103 de la distan\u021b\u0103 (adic\u0103 citesc, se mai preocup\u0103, cocheteaz\u0103 cu, etc.) De fapt nu este chiar at\u00e2t de nou, asta repet\u0103m noi mereu la sal\u0103, \u00eentr-o semi-glum\u0103, la exerci\u021biile de cur\u0103\u021bare sau la precizarea vreunui concept [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":2683,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lila-spirit.ro\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/3292"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lila-spirit.ro\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lila-spirit.ro\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lila-spirit.ro\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lila-spirit.ro\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3292"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lila-spirit.ro\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/3292\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3293,"href":"https:\/\/lila-spirit.ro\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/3292\/revisions\/3293"}],"up":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lila-spirit.ro\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/2683"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lila-spirit.ro\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3292"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}