{"id":3329,"date":"2017-10-04T13:00:57","date_gmt":"2017-10-04T10:00:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lila-spirit.ro\/wp\/?page_id=3329"},"modified":"2017-10-04T13:00:57","modified_gmt":"2017-10-04T10:00:57","slug":"algoritmii-validarii-evolutiei-tale","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/lila-spirit.ro\/wp\/?page_id=3329","title":{"rendered":"ALGORITMII VALID\u0102RII \u201dEVOLU\u021aIEI\u201d TALE&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Algoritmii valid\u0103rii <\/strong><strong>\u201c<\/strong><strong>evolu\u021biei\u201d tale\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Iat\u0103, este nevoie \u0219i de a\u0219a ceva: un instrument de auto-evaluare\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Care ne va ajuta mereu \u2013 S\u0102 NE FACEM MICI\u2026, \u0219i s\u0103 continu\u0103m s\u0103 practic\u0103m\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Desigur, sunt trepte ale practicii \u0219i ale evolu\u021biei. Acum nu vorbim despre cele mai sofisticate, ci despre <strong>nivelul omenesc<\/strong>\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Iat\u0103 c\u00e2teva chei de \u201capreciere\u201d a treptelor respective\u2026 Poate fi considerat\u0103 chiar o fi\u0219\u0103 de \u201curm\u0103rire\u201d zilnic\u0103 (pentru cei care chiar doresc s\u0103 practice \u0219i s\u0103 evolueze).<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Dac\u0103 via\u021ba ta concret\u0103 nu s-a schimbat, \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 nici tu nu te-ai schimbat!<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Exteriorul (via\u021ba ta exterioar\u0103) \u2013 este o reflexie, sau o \u201cprelungire\u201d, sau o manifestare &#8211;<\/em><em>\u00a0 a interiorului t\u0103u<\/em> (vezi algoritmul \u201cTu e\u0219ti cheia a tot\u201d, apoi algoritmul \u201cCum e\u0219ti interior, a\u0219a vei manifesta exterior\u201d).<\/p>\n<p>C\u00e2nd se va schimba interiorul \u2013 se va schimba \u0219i exteriorul\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Vorbim despre rela\u021bii, slujb\u0103, timp alocat practicii, preocup\u0103ri, vacan\u021be, etc. Lucruri foarte concrete.<\/p>\n<p>Secundar unei practici reale, interiorizate, autentice, acestea se vor schimba: vei renun\u021ba la o mul\u021bime de nimicuri, vei avea alte priorit\u0103\u021bi, alte rela\u021bii, alte \u201cinterese\u201d: de a te vedea, de a \u00een\u021belege mai mult, de a lucra tu cu tine mai mult\u2026<\/p>\n<p>S-a \u00eent\u00eemplat asta? Sau e\u0219ti exact \u00een acelea\u0219i \u0219abloane: de slujb\u0103, de timp, de priorit\u0103\u021bi, de rela\u021bii, de vacan\u021be? (vezi aici \u0219i textul \u201cDespre omul robot\u2026\u201d)<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Cum reac\u021bionezi c\u00e2nd cineva te critic\u0103 sau se ceart\u0103 cu tine?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Vii imediat cu justific\u0103ri (vezi algoritmul Argument\u0103rii)? Te aperi instantaneu, \u00eencepi s\u0103 explici \u201cdreptatea ta\u201d, \u201cpunctul t\u0103u de vedere\u201d? Dac\u0103 este a\u0219a\u2026 progresele nu sunt prea mari.<\/p>\n<p><em>Progresul real \u2013 ar \u00eensemna ca \u00een acel moment \u00een tine s\u0103 nu se mai mi\u0219te nici o und\u0103 de furie, de ripost\u0103, de lupt\u0103, de nevoie de justificare\u2026<\/em> Asta ar \u00eensemna acea lini\u0219te interioar\u0103 autentic\u0103\u2026<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>De c\u00e2te ori te-ai deschis azi, fa\u021b\u0103 de orice, de c\u00e2te ori ai spus DA (simbolic)?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Fa\u021b\u0103 de ceea ce-\u021bi aduce ziua, oamenii, fa\u021b\u0103 de ceilal\u021bi, fa\u021b\u0103 de probleme, fa\u021b\u0103 de critici, fa\u021b\u0103 de vremea ur\u0103t\u0103\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Sau, din nou, NU! NU! NU!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Te vezi ?? Ai \u00eenceput s\u0103 te vezi??<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>C\u00e2nd cineva din mica noastr\u0103 colectivitate <em>sangha<\/em> \u00ee\u021bi atrage aten\u021bia, \u00eencerci s\u0103 te vezi?<\/p>\n<p>Sau negi imediat \u2013 cu voce tare sau doar \u00een mintea ta: \u201cnu-i adev\u0103rat! eu nu sunt a\u0219a!\u201d. Sau te miri, gra\u021bios, \u201ca\u0219a s\u0103 fie?!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dar m\u0103car dore\u0219ti s\u0103 te vezi?? \u0218i s\u0103 te corectezi? Hai, sincer\u2026<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>\u00cencerci s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021bi c\u00e2te ceva \u2013 din ORICE?? Ai observat cum Universul \u00ee\u021bi vorbe\u0219te mereu? Prin tot felul de \u201cglasuri\u201d?! Unele strigate, altele abia \u0219optite?!<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Sau nu, din nou \u2013 rulezi doar programele tale, nu schimbi nimic, nu vezi nimic\u2026, merg complet orb, pe acea\u0219i \u201c\u0219ine\u201d\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Ia observ\u0103-te, \u00een situa\u021bii concrete de via\u021b\u0103, c\u00e2t de creativ ai devenit? C\u00e2t repe\u021bi, iar\u0103\u0219i, acelea\u0219i comportamente, acelea\u0219i \u201c\u0219tiu eu cum s\u0103\u201d?! Aten\u021bie, de cele mai multe ori \u2013 acel \u201c\u0219tiu eu cum\u201d \u2013 este deja program subcon\u0219tient, care se deruleaz\u0103 complet automat! (vezi algoritmul \u201c\u0218tiutului\u201d, \u021bi-ar fi de folos!)<\/p>\n<p>C\u00e2t ai \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat din ultimul conflict, din ultima problem\u0103?!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Hei, auzi ce-\u021bi spune Universul?? Acum, \u00een clipa asta, m\u0103 auzi??<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Cum stai cu compasiunea, real\u0103, autentic\u0103?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Oare nu oferi o cutie de bomboane \u2013 doar ca s\u0103-\u021bi faci datoria\u2026 fa\u021b\u0103 de imaginea ta, de fiin\u021b\u0103 generoas\u0103?!<\/p>\n<p>Oare \u00eei aju\u021bi pe ceilal\u021bi \u2013 atunci \u0219i cum au ei nevoie? F\u0103r\u0103 rezerve?! \u0218i nu doar c\u00e2nd \u0219i cum ai tu chef \u0219i timp \u0219i dispozi\u021bie, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103-\u021bi perturbe programul \u0219i celelalte interese?!<\/p>\n<p>Oare consacri ceva, te g\u00e2nde\u0219ti \u0219i la al\u021bii, atunci c\u00e2nd m\u0103n\u00e2nci, c\u00e2nd \u00ee\u021bi cumperi c\u00e2te ceva\u2026?!<\/p>\n<p>Oare \u00ee\u021bi deschizi casa pentru al\u021bii?! Sau via\u021ba?! Sau\u2026 inima?!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Cum stai cu raportarea la \u201ceu, mie, \u00eemi\u201d?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Tu e\u0219ti centrul preocup\u0103rilor, discursului, timpului, t\u0103u, \u00een continuare; nu? Am b\u0103nuit eu\u2026<br \/>\nF\u0103r\u0103 tine se pr\u0103bu\u0219e\u0219te lumea, nu? Serviciul, familie, etc. Tu e\u0219ti st\u00e2lpul de baz\u0103\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Dar m\u0103car vezi asta? Te vezi?? (din nou &#8211; algoritmul \u201cCon\u0219tientiz\u0103rii\u201d)<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cum stai cu preten\u021biile, cu dorin\u021bele? Cu \u201cmie mi se cuvine\u201d<\/strong> \u2013 \u0219i asta \u0219i asta \u0219i asta\u2026<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Cum stai cu t\u0103cerea, exterioar\u0103, dar \u0219i interioar\u0103?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Cam c\u00e2t de mult vorbe\u0219ti \u00eenc\u0103 \u2013 despre tine, p\u0103rerea ta, problema ta, experien\u021ba ta, boala ta, durerea ta, via\u021ba ta, munca ta, serviciul t\u0103u, familia ta, nenorocirea ta?! (algoritmul \u201cT\u0103cerii\u201d)<\/p>\n<p>Te auzi c\u00e2nd, cum, c\u00e2t, vorbe\u0219ti? \u0218i, din nou, oare despre cine?!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Te-ai prins cum e cu ego-ul? \u00cel sim\u021bi, ai de unde s\u0103-l apuci? Dar cu starea de martor??<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u00cencerc s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleg m\u0103car? M\u0103 str\u0103duiesc? Oare suficient?<\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 nu \u2013 relu\u0103m, relu\u0103m, relu\u0103m: texte, practic\u0103, cur\u0103\u021bare, texte, practic\u0103, cur\u0103\u021bare\u2026<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Oare care este rela\u021bia ta cu \u0218coala?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>De elev con\u0219tiincios, dedicat\u2026, sau chiulangiu, sau mi\u0219tocar, sau nep\u0103s\u0103tor\u2026?! Sau \u0219mecher, sau plin de el, sunt de\u0219tept \u0219i recuperez eu cumva? Sau acea imfatuare penibil\u0103: \u0219tiu eu toate chestiile astea?!<\/p>\n<p>Nu cumva mai am acea atitudine \u0219col\u0103reasc\u0103 \u2013 de a te ascunde \u00een wc., de dna profesoar\u0103, s\u0103 nu m\u0103 vad\u0103? (la figurat, desigur)<\/p>\n<p>\u0218tii, Universul te vede, \u0219i \u00een wc.!<\/p>\n<p>Iar doamna profesoar\u0103 s-ar putea doar s\u0103-\u021bi vrea binele\u2026<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><u>Din nou: \u00een\u021belegi chiar acum, c\u0103 este vorba despre TINE??<\/u><\/strong><u> <strong>La TOATE aceste subpuncte<\/strong><\/u><strong>?! <\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Ia observ\u0103-te: nu cumva te faci c\u0103 plou\u0103? Nu cumva ai s\u0103rit c\u00e2teva r\u00e2nduri care \u201c<\/strong><strong>nu te intereseaz\u0103\u201d?! Nu cumva am\u00e2ni, iar \u0219i iar, chiar acum, av\u00e2nd alte priorit\u0103\u021bi?!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Citesc asta mai t\u00e2rziu; nu e chiar urgent. Am altceva de f\u0103cut acum, mai important.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Indra<\/p>\n<p><em>(textele apar\u021bin \u0218colii LiLA&#8230;, etc.)<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Algoritmii valid\u0103rii \u201cevolu\u021biei\u201d tale\u2026 &nbsp; Iat\u0103, este nevoie \u0219i de a\u0219a ceva: un instrument de auto-evaluare\u2026 Care ne va ajuta mereu \u2013 S\u0102 NE FACEM MICI\u2026, \u0219i s\u0103 continu\u0103m s\u0103 practic\u0103m\u2026 Desigur, sunt trepte ale practicii \u0219i ale evolu\u021biei. Acum nu vorbim despre cele mai sofisticate, ci despre nivelul omenesc\u2026 Iat\u0103 c\u00e2teva chei de \u201capreciere\u201d [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":2683,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lila-spirit.ro\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/3329"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lila-spirit.ro\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lila-spirit.ro\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lila-spirit.ro\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lila-spirit.ro\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3329"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lila-spirit.ro\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/3329\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3330,"href":"https:\/\/lila-spirit.ro\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/3329\/revisions\/3330"}],"up":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lila-spirit.ro\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/2683"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lila-spirit.ro\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3329"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}