{"id":3821,"date":"2020-04-27T18:10:02","date_gmt":"2020-04-27T15:10:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lila-spirit.ro\/wp\/?p=3821"},"modified":"2020-04-27T18:10:04","modified_gmt":"2020-04-27T15:10:04","slug":"delia-a-celebra-viata","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lila-spirit.ro\/wp\/?p=3821","title":{"rendered":"Delia: A celebra via\u021ba…"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

A celebra via\u021ba…<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Moartea e un subiect morbid, mi s-a spus recent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ciudat, zic, mie mi se pare c\u0103 din contr\u0103. G\u00e2ndul la moarte\nm\u0103 duce \u00eenspre recuno\u0219tin\u021ba de a fi aici, spre celebrarea vie\u021bii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Plec\u0103m \u00eentr-o sear\u0103 de la sal\u0103, cu tem\u0103 de cas\u0103: exerci\u021biul\nde a ne preg\u0103ti, ast\u0103zi, de culcare, ca \u0219i cum ar fi ultima zi. S\u0103 las totul \u00een\ncas\u0103, g\u00e2ndindu-m\u0103 c\u0103 a\u0219a va r\u0103m\u00e2ne, c\u0103 m\u0103 culc \u0219i nu m\u0103 mai trezesc\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cemi fac de lucru, m\u0103 foiesc, \u00eentr-un final fac exerci\u021biul \u2013\ntermin de pus toate cele \u00een bun\u0103 regul\u0103, m\u0103 pun \u00een pat, izbucnesc \u00een lacrimi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Noa, da\u2019 ce s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat, m\u0103\n\u00eentreb?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cemi r\u0103spund: dar nu am apucat, \u00eenc\u0103, s\u0103 tr\u0103iesc… <\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u0103 auto-lini\u0219tesc: bine, fat\u0103 drag\u0103, dar ai peste 30 de ani,\nai prins ni\u0219te prim\u0103veri. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u0103 justific: am fost pe aici, dar asta nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 am\ntr\u0103it. Iat\u0103, a\u0219a reiese la bilan\u021b…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trece o perioad\u0103, vine pandemia de coronavirus…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fir-ar s\u0103 fie!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Reiau exerci\u021biul \u0219i \u00eel duc mai departe. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De ce fac asta? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ca s\u0103 m\u0103 obi\u0219nuiesc cu ideea, desigur. Pentru c\u0103, dup\u0103 c\u00e2tiva\nani de practic\u0103, nu pot s\u0103 nu observ obstina\u021bia cu care evit\u0103m subiectul,\nindiferent de v\u00e2rst\u0103, nivel de inteligen\u021b\u0103, situa\u021bie social\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pentru c\u0103 este la mine sub nas…: mi se poate \u00eent\u00e2mpla.\nZilele astea a devenit o \u201dposibilitate\u201d (sau probabilitate?!) mai mare dec\u00e2t\np\u00e2n\u0103 acum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218ed \u0219i \u00eencerc s\u0103 simt, s\u0103 tr\u0103iesc aceast\u0103 experien\u021b\u0103. M\u0103\nraportez \u0219i eu, cum pot, la situa\u021bii anterioare din via\u021b\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cam cum ar fi?!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trec procedurile tehnice la care am asistat cu to\u021bii de\nc\u00e2teva ori p\u00e2n\u0103 acum, este demarat\u0103 organizarea bunurilor \u0219i activelor, vin\nparastasele, trec \u0219i alea… <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Timpul curge \u0219i, dup\u0103 c\u00e2teva zile, mai multe sau mai pu\u021bine,\nde la caz, oamenii numi\u021bi familie, prieteni, \u00ee\u0219i reiau activit\u0103\u021bile, vie\u021bile. Anotimpurile\nse scurg, omule\u021bii sunt tr\u0103i\u021bi de via\u021b\u0103…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu spun asta cu niciun fel de senza\u021bie de disperare, triste\u021be,\nsau acuzare, ci, pur \u0219i simplu, ca o constatare. C\u00e2nd acest bardo \u00een care sunt\nacum, situat \u00eentre na\u0219tere \u0219i moarte, se va \u00eencheia, to\u021bi cei care r\u0103m\u00e2n \u00een el\nvor continua s\u0103 vie\u021buiasc\u0103 aici. Fiecare dup\u0103 putin\u021bele lui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tu e\u0219ti urgen\u021ba! spun \u00cenv\u0103\u021b\u0103turile, prin intermediul\nMae\u0219trilor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tu e\u0219ti urgen\u021ba! \u00cemi aduc eu aminte, \u00een cadrul procesului de\ncontemplare a proprei treceri, transform\u0103ri, schimb\u0103ri de bardo… Ca s\u0103 nu zic\nmoarte. Pentru c\u0103 e morbid. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen fa\u021ba mor\u021bii conteaz\u0103 dou\u0103 lucruri: cum ai tr\u0103it \u0219i starea\nta din acel moment. Dac\u0103 moartea este mama tuturor fricilor \u0219i nici nu\n\u00eendr\u0103znesc s\u0103 m\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc la ea \u0219i Doamne fere\u0219te s\u0103 se pun\u0103 problema c\u0103 a\u0219 muri\neu vreodat\u0103, cum a\u0219 putea s\u0103 fiu c\u00e2t de c\u00e2t preg\u0103tit, adic\u0103 s\u0103 am o stare\npotrivit\u0103 momentului?!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Redau, din pu\u021bintica con\u0219tientizare zilnic\u0103: m\u0103 apuc\u0103\npandaliile \u0219i disperarea, la simpla idee de a pierde c\u00e2te ceva relativ lejer,\ndin amplasamentul vie\u021bii mele – o mic\u0103 rutin\u0103, timpul meu liber, distrac\u021biile,\norele de mas\u0103\u2026 Cum a\u0219 putea, f\u0103r\u0103 o preg\u0103tire serioas\u0103, s\u0103 fiu c\u00e2t de c\u00e2t gata\ns\u0103 mor?! Adic\u0103 s\u0103 pierd corp, agoniseli, rela\u021bii, amintiri… <\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u00e2n\u0103 la moartea fizic\u0103 – am de \u00eenfruntat moartea ego-ului,\n\u00eemi aduc eu aminte din cursuri, discu\u021bii vechi. Hai s\u0103 m\u0103 antrenez cu asta \u2013\n\u00eencep cu ceva u\u0219or (vorba vine \ud83d\ude0a) mai digerabil, pe buc\u0103\u021bele. Lucrez la partea de cum ai\ntr\u0103it: \u00eencep \u0219i \u00eencerc s\u0103 m\u0103 dezata\u0219ez de toate cele care cred eu c\u0103 sunt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Consider\u0103m, mereu, \u00een mod eronat, c\u0103 avem timp. Ne uit\u0103m pe\nstatistici cu speran\u021be de via\u021b\u0103 tot mai lungi \u0219i rat\u0103m \u00een\u021belegerea faptului c\u0103\neste degeaba, acel tr\u0103it prelungit, dac\u0103 nu m\u0103 preg\u0103tesc nu voi fi preg\u0103tit; \u0219i\ngata.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pot s\u0103 \u00eencep aceast\u0103 preg\u0103tire prin c\u0103teva dintre\nexerci\u021biile, tehnicile at\u00e2t de mult discutate zilele astea:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

  1. A reflecta\nasupra conceptului de impermanen\u021ba<\/strong>: a accepta organic, profund, faptul c\u0103\nschimbarea este parte din via\u021b\u0103. Spune Osho: \u201d\u00centr-o zi nu am fost, \u00eentr-o zi\nnu voi mai fi, sunt doar c\u00e2teva zile la mijloc\u201d\u2026<\/li>
  2. Umorul:<\/strong> hai s\u0103 nu m\u0103\niau at\u00e2t de \u00een serios, s\u0103 am m\u0103sura just\u0103 a lucrurilor. Oricine care cite\u0219te\nacest text nu are cum s\u0103 fie cea mai n\u0103p\u0103stuit\u0103 fiin\u021b\u0103 uman\u0103 de pe planet\u0103! Pur\n\u0219i simplu nu ai cum… (\u0219tii s\u0103 cite\u0219ti \ud83d\ude0a, ai telefon \/\nlaptop \ud83d\ude0a)<\/li>
  3. S\u0103 fiu recunosc\u0103tor\n\u2013 pentru toate cele care le-am primit, deja:<\/strong> pentru c\u0103 am primit\nvia\u021b\u0103, pentru c\u0103 Universul m\u0103 respir\u0103, pentru c\u0103 exist\u0103 posibilitatea\nschimb\u0103rii, a evolu\u021biei, pentru c\u0103 altfel a\u0219 fi tot r\u00e2m\u0103 (am citit eu recent\n\u00eentr-unul din textele noastre mai vechi)\u2026<\/li>
  4. Deschiderea\nc\u0103tre… orice,<\/strong> c\u0103tre un nou \u201dnormal\u201d. Dac\u0103 nu a\u0219 fi at\u00e2t de ata\u0219at de via\u021ba\nmea, a\u0219a cum este ea, a\u0219 putea s\u0103 simt momentele de mare schimbare prin care\ntrece lumea, s\u0103 m\u0103 \u201dbucur\u201d c\u0103 sunt aici, acum\u2026, este o super-experien\u021b\u0103, versus\no via\u021b\u0103 \u201dconfortabil\u0103\u201d \u0219i \u201dc\u0103ldu\u021b\u0103\u201d \u00een care nu am sim\u021bit nimic\u2026<\/li>
  5. Parcurgerea\nunui text, a unei c\u0103r\u021bi, unei \u00eenregistr\u0103ri ale \u0218colii, <\/strong> care m\u0103 transpune \u00eentr-o altfel de energetic\u0103,\nversus mundan\u2026<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n

    Multe lucruri nu am \u00een\u021beles \u00een via\u021ba asta. \u00cencep s\u0103 m\u0103 mai\ndumiresc cu privire la unele \u0219i am a\u0219a un \u0219oc teribil\u2026 Pare de la sine \u00een\u021beles\nc\u0103 \u0219tim, fiecare dintre noi, cum s\u0103 tr\u0103im. Aflu c\u0103 nu e chiar a\u0219a: \u0219i asta este\no art\u0103!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    A tr\u0103i frumos, non-violent, cu respect \u0219i venera\u021bie \u00een fa\u021ba\nvie\u021bii, a sim\u021bi c\u0103 e\u0219ti viu\u2026, \u00een acela\u0219i timp – a nu te ata\u0219a de via\u021b\u0103, dar a o\ncelebra, este o extrem de mare art\u0103. Oare noi, omule\u021bii, suntem preg\u0103ti\u021bi s\u0103 ne\ndedic\u0103m deprinderii acestei m\u0103estrii?!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    A celebra via\u021ba… Moartea e un subiect morbid, mi s-a spus recent. Ciudat, zic, mie mi se pare c\u0103 din contr\u0103. G\u00e2ndul la moarte m\u0103 duce \u00eenspre recuno\u0219tin\u021ba de a fi aici, spre celebrarea vie\u021bii. Plec\u0103m \u00eentr-o sear\u0103 de la sal\u0103, cu tem\u0103 de cas\u0103: exerci\u021biul de a ne preg\u0103ti, ast\u0103zi, de culcare, ca \u0219i […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[7,8],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lila-spirit.ro\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3821"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lila-spirit.ro\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lila-spirit.ro\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lila-spirit.ro\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lila-spirit.ro\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3821"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lila-spirit.ro\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3821\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3822,"href":"https:\/\/lila-spirit.ro\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3821\/revisions\/3822"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lila-spirit.ro\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3821"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lila-spirit.ro\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3821"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lila-spirit.ro\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3821"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}